best thing since sliced bread

today is a day i will probably remember for the rest of my life. it could be looked at in a bad way through some people's eyes, but through mine........ great!!!!

3 years ago today i would have walked down the aisle and married a man, i was not in love with. i just thank god that i didn't. i would be in 1 of the 3 circumstances if i would have gotten married.

1. today would be the third anniversary of a very unhappy marriage
2. i would have gotten "knocked up" just because i needed someone to love me in my life
3. i would have gotten divorced within the first year or after we had kids

so there you have it. SAD. that is where i would have been today. basically unhappy!

so if i could ever give advice to anyone who is in a situation where they have doubt(and it doesn't take much) or JUST KNOW in the back of their pretty little heads that this is just not what my life is suppose to be like or he/she is just really not for me.....

i beg of you, simply BEG.......CALL IT OFF!

JeAnNa'S TOP 10 SIGNS (and more), you should not be in your relationship OR get married:

#1. if you have any reason to believe that your family may not like him/her as much as you want them to, then they ARE NOT the person for you. believe me.... family knows you better than anyone in the entire world.

#2. if you never get to make decisions on where to eat or what to do

#3. if it is snowing outside and they won't come outside and act like they are 12 agian with you

#4. if they are indian givers; or they buy things for you that they want

#5. if you NEVER hear you're beautiful or handsome or hot.... it's not hard to say

#6. if you do not agree with their parents parenting skills; he/she will turn out just like them

#7. if a person doesn't strive to be a better person EVERDAY

#8. if you think you have changed (in a bad way)

#9. if nothing you ever do feels good enough or right

#10. if you feel and it only matters if this is what you feel.... that they don't listen to you or they aren't interested in what you have to say.

and one more because i could really go on for days but i will stop here....

#11. if they never make you feel like you are the best thing since slice bread. not just being funny, this ones a biggy. personality and all

one more
#12. if you can't laugh and don't laugh much with each other

man, another

#13. if he/she doesn't fake that they like your cooking

last one i promise

#14. if you do not hear I LOVE YOU enough

i know i sound a little pessimistic but i am not.
look back at the list, and just read the highlighted words.
they are words that make me smile, now. they are words that i know i want in my relationship and i do have!

i hope no one else falls in the trap that i did of loving someone just because you think you should. there is someone out there who will love you back. I PROMISE!